{"id":2745,"date":"2021-11-19T10:44:37","date_gmt":"2021-11-19T10:44:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ayurvedische-massagen.net\/3-myths-surrounding-massage-sex-pain-shame\/"},"modified":"2021-11-19T10:44:37","modified_gmt":"2021-11-19T10:44:37","slug":"3-myths-surrounding-massage-sex-pain-shame","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ayurvedische-massagen.net\/en\/3-myths-surrounding-massage-sex-pain-shame\/","title":{"rendered":"3 myths surrounding massage: sex – pain – shame"},"content":{"rendered":"

A provocation, of course. But one that has a real basis. <\/p>\n

Sex:<\/p>\n

Around a quarter of the callers ask: is there a happy ending? Is an intimate massage included?<\/p>\n

All legitimate questions, but a serious and professional massage has nothing to do with sex. Rather, it is about health prophylaxis, regeneration and mental and physical relaxation. And the latter without sex.<\/p>\n

Pain:<\/p>\n

A massage doesn’t have to hurt. What matters is what the client wants. If you just want to relax, you can massage with less pressure.<\/p>\n

However, if you have yourself massaged to release muscular tension, in order to be free of pain in the long term, you have to accept that some massage grips can be painful.<\/p>\n

Whereby, of course, pain is also a relative term and is felt differently from person to person. The masseur should feel how far he can go.<\/p>\n

Shame:<\/p>\n

Yes, as a client you have to take off your clothes, except for your underpants.<\/p>\n

And, yes, the masseur sees possible physical inadequacies. If the masseur is a professional, he only registers this insofar as it is relevant for the massage.<\/p>\n

And of course the masseur does not comment on the possibly existing belly or the strange underpants.<\/p>\n

Besides, we all have our physical imperfections. Nobody is perfect. If that’s no consolation. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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